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[优质好贴] 家和万事兴——梅州客家的一次婚宴之旅
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借用一下某公司活动名称的标题,本人国庆没有假期,刚好上周末休了两天假去了一趟梅州,和老婆,哥嫂一起去参加我妹妹的婚礼,体验了一下客家人的风俗,感受了客家人的热情。
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迎接新娘的婚车,由于我老家较远,离梅州有十几小时的路程,所以新娘是在新郞的叔叔家待嫁,婚礼那天才能正式进家门。婚车走在最前面,送嫁的车随后,有个习惯是婚车每过一座桥都要往桥上扔硬币(我家也是这样但不明原因)。" Z1 q8 V/ K! i
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新郞新娘要等到吉时听到鞭炮声才能下车,携手走过一道风水门(像多啦A梦的任意门么),然后要从正门进入家门,娘家送嫁的我们也是原路跟随进去。2 V$ M, j- o4 I+ t% N6 `
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新郞家是一座古式的四合院,两侧还有后来因人口增长而扩建的房子,院子的主体有一正门和两道横门,前厅后厅两侧厅加八个小房间,现在的农村好多都盖起了小洋楼,估计这样的院子各地都不多见了。摆酒用的桌子是这辆手扶拖拉机送来的。  l: c) L" }* K( U( K: ]

/ \6 @% `2 ~$ y. |当地的习俗是白喜事要在门口设宴,红喜事必须摆在在室内,所以十一桌刚好摆满了四个厅,听说新郞的大哥结婚摆了40桌,我现在也想不通到底桌子要摆在哪呢。
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# j2 |) @' B; q' m' P$ j9 S4 i$ ^当地的特产黄酒,我尝了下很难喝。这一席共16道菜话说才630元一桌,真的好便宜。当然饭菜味道不怎么样,但主人家盛情难却,我还是吃得饱饱的,偷偷告诉你,我是只肉食动物,哈哈。
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4 z7 ~5 e2 S+ P0 a( s' s) I8 Y% G新郞新娘还有主婚人,主婚的大叔挺能吹,也很会调动气氛,还即兴唱了两首客家山歌,可惜,客家话我好多都听不懂,这倒是有点小遗憾了。
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饭后的娱乐当然是少不了,几个外出打工回乡的小伙麻将玩得不亦乐乎,旁边还有几个美女我不好意思拍。烟花,炮竹,还有露天电影,是不是很有儿时的感觉呢?* `7 Z) d1 t0 x8 m& _( V/ T

% P1 m7 Z- O0 V玩BC时间长了,适当时间远离电脑,出去放松下自己还是很不错的,只是亲家那边比较偏僻,没有WIFI,4G信号也不好,确实让我们这种手机党很不适应。而且刚好那天开始,论坛.com的域名用移动网络是无法打开的,有过那么段时间,真的急死我了,哈哈。已经习惯的生活,要撤底抛下很难呢!$ X% \5 E+ K" z* p

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难得一见的客家婚礼,为论坛平添几分喜气,建议2A奖励。
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流水宴席,美食口水有余,文字精彩不足,2A支持原创~
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好久没有经历过这样的婚宴场面了,看看也是觉得开心,建议2A奖励
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应该是抽空休息休息  不要菠菜的时间过长呢!!
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涨姿势了,天朝传统的老风俗的越来越看不到了
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楼主真是用心了,谢谢你给我们分享这些快乐时光。{:4_99:}
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爬格子的瘦书生 发表于 2015-10-16 23:12
! w% a$ U! S" T0 Z搓麻将是我喜欢的活动
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这个是广大群众都喜欢的活动了
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感谢楼主让我们见识到了客家人的又一习俗,平添了喜气
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华五拳 发表于 2015-10-14 13:50" Z) C" G/ ~+ I3 O. _3 \* P7 U5 B; _
其实还是平房住起来比较舒服,只是夏天蚊子多麻烦
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你在你身边养几条蜥蜴啊 吃苍蝇吃蚊子{:4_130:}
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恭喜新人,看着一桌美食真是可怜 了我的胃啊
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客家人黄酒煮鸡
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阁下的这篇文章写的还是很不错的
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搓麻将是我喜欢的活动
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恭喜一对新人百年好合永结同心啊!
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感觉有很浓郁的文化韵味在里头
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真是异域风情啊 和我们这里一点都不搭界啊
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家庭和睦是非常的重要的
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这结婚的宴席看起来不是那么丰盛啊
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每个地方的婚俗都有很大的不同啊
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确实是比较不错的 还是农村好啊
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